It is that time of year again friends! The time of year where countless individuals wake up before dawn to battle other deal hounds at the mall. Where people stand in line.. after line..after line, listening to the same holiday songs on rotation singing from the ceiling. Kids are crying, people are bickering, strangers are glaring..all with the same goal - to get the best deals on merchandise in hope that these items will put smiles on the faces of family and friends this holiday season.
If you're shopping this weekend, please try to shop small...and by that I mean try to shop small businesses. If you really want to occupy Wall Street, shop at your locally owned businesses and not the super stores. This Saturday has been deemed Small Business Saturday to support this cause. You can find more information about the Saturday event and a list of local businesses here: http://smallbusinesssaturday.com/
It's going to happen, as it does every holiday season...the parking lots in the mall will be full until January. My family doesn't exchange gifts anymore...with the one exception of gifts given to my nephews who are age 5 and age 2. Last year instead of exchanging gifts my family pooled some money and gave to Heifer International. This year I'm guessing we will do the same.
My nephews will get presents from me but for everyone else, my family and my friends...instead of giving you a present this holiday season, I vow to BE present. I vow to be present when I'm with you...to listen, to look you in the eyes. When I'm in a conversation with you, I vow to stop the other things in my life from taking my attention away from you. I vow to put away my phone. I vow to forget about my grocery list and my work load and my plans for tomorrow and my regrets from yesterday. I vow to be present with you through the good moments and the bad moments. I will be present with you when you make me laugh and present with you if you make me upset. I will be present with you because I am grateful to have you in my life through all of our present moments.
Safe shopping and eating! If you find yourself in a crazy shopping crowd or unpleasant family conversation, breath deeply and remember, be present.
If you're shopping this weekend, please try to shop small...and by that I mean try to shop small businesses. If you really want to occupy Wall Street, shop at your locally owned businesses and not the super stores. This Saturday has been deemed Small Business Saturday to support this cause. You can find more information about the Saturday event and a list of local businesses here: http://smallbusinesssaturday.com/
It's going to happen, as it does every holiday season...the parking lots in the mall will be full until January. My family doesn't exchange gifts anymore...with the one exception of gifts given to my nephews who are age 5 and age 2. Last year instead of exchanging gifts my family pooled some money and gave to Heifer International. This year I'm guessing we will do the same.
My nephews will get presents from me but for everyone else, my family and my friends...instead of giving you a present this holiday season, I vow to BE present. I vow to be present when I'm with you...to listen, to look you in the eyes. When I'm in a conversation with you, I vow to stop the other things in my life from taking my attention away from you. I vow to put away my phone. I vow to forget about my grocery list and my work load and my plans for tomorrow and my regrets from yesterday. I vow to be present with you through the good moments and the bad moments. I will be present with you when you make me laugh and present with you if you make me upset. I will be present with you because I am grateful to have you in my life through all of our present moments.
Safe shopping and eating! If you find yourself in a crazy shopping crowd or unpleasant family conversation, breath deeply and remember, be present.
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